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The participants were UK-based and 79-82 years of age. All had lost their middle-aged son or daughter less than 2 years ago. Their stories are analysed in the light of the silencing effect of society’s preference for redemption and restoration narratives (Frank, 2010; McAdams, 2013) which act to deny the possibility of death. They are also examined in terms of the unique motivational perspective of an older parent heading into very old age. According to Stroebe and Schut’s (1999) Dual Process Model of Coping with Bereavement (DPM), people divide their attention between loss-oriented and restoration-oriented stressors (as well as having time off from both) in a process called oscillation. In recent years, the DPM has been modified to recognise both the importance of interpersonal factors (Stroebe and Schut, 2015) and overload (Stroebe and Schut, 2016) in bereavement. 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