Psychotherapeutic interventions for clients seeking long-term romantic relationships, yet displaying intimacy avoidance patterns: a thematic analysis of clinicians' experiences

Relational issues are common reasons people seek psychological help, hereunder issues regarding romance, where many people struggle with dating and relationship formation. This is often due to a fear of emotional intimacy expressed as avoidance of emotional and physical closeness, explained in part by attachment theory. The present study is a qualitative investigation into what therapeutic interventions psychological practitioners employ when they encounter clients who experience avoidance attachment patterns in dating and relationship formation. Taking a point of departure in attachment theory the paper considers how secondary attachment avoidance patterns, or emotional deactivation strategies, contribute to these difficulties and argues a need to clarify what therapeutic interventions clinicians’ practice to remedy the adverse effects of avoidance patterns in intimacy. While some therapies incorporate attachment theory in their approach to alleviating attachmentrelated issues, it is less clear what practitioners can do to service people specifically displaying intimacy avoidance in romance. Adopting a critical realist perspective, this paper aims to disseminate a complementary lens to the psychological profession in approaching psychological therapy for this specific demographic. A thematic analysis carried out on ten semi-structured interviews with highly experienced practitioners revealed four themes relating to interventions employed in therapy; ‘Create awareness of avoidance and build psychological capacity to tolerate difficult emotions through process and techniques’, ‘Use self and the therapeutic relationship as a conduit to change avoidance patterns’, ‘Apply measured humanity to heal and restore trust in intimacy’ and ‘Contextual and conceptual positioning in therapy’. Sub-themes to each intervention are considered and their implications discussed.

Name dc:type.qualificationname

other

Level dc:type.qualificationlevel

doctoral

Grantor dc:publisher.institution

London Metropolitan University

Year dc:date.issued

2021

Author dc:creator

• Mason Roantree, Madeleine

• 610 Medicine & health

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N/A

OAI identifier oai:identifier

oai:repository.londonmet.ac.uk:6933